Update 2-2-2008: Due to health reason I'm electing to have the gastric bypass surgery in March 2008. Keep ya updated!!!

Update 4-1-08: Through the grace of God and your many prayers and well wishes I'm happy to state I am doing ok. I was admitted on 3-28-08 and I was released from the hospital on 3-29-08. Each day I'm getting stronger. I will have before and afters photos posted elsewhere online in the near future. Please contact me to find out where.

Update 4-8-08 My follow up visit to the surgeon bought me some great news I lost 70lbs. The blood pressure level are coming down and the blood sugar level are normal. Possibly no more pills!! We'll see tomorrow when I visit my primary physician...fingers crossed.

4-9-08 My first visit to my medical doctor after the surgery. He very happy with the results and announced that I can stop taking the diabetic pills immediately!!! I'm so excited!!!

Update 4-14-08 I'm back to work now on light duty status but happy to be busy...also I started working my second job driving tour buses last weekend. I'm on the stage 4 diet...yuck!!!... which consist of pureed food. A necessary evil!!! Lol!!!

Update 4-23-08 I'm on full duty status @ work!!! Good!!! I've move to stage 5 on my diet...goodbye puree!!! Thank God!!! I'm doing well!! I've lost 12 more lbs!!!

Update 5-28-08 I've lost 15 more lbs!!! I've lost close to 100 lbs and I'm feeling great!!! Regular food for me... it's about time!!!

Update 7-9-08: I'm 114 lbs lighter now a 14 lbs weight loss since the last update. I'm now under the 290 lbs. my goal is between 200 to 210 lbs 80 more and I reach my goal!! My check up was good with the doctor.

Update 10-9-08 I lost 12lbs more...I'm not satified with the results but it is what it is...my check up was fine. I'm focusing my attention on a H.I.I.T (high itensity interval training) regiment.


I'm a nonsmoking, large, overweight, divorced, and very conservative minded (politically and socially) black male 5'7" tall who (does not suffer from from short man's complex) is employed in the law enforcement field and a part time DJ on the weekends. I have a great sense of humor. I love long walks on the bea... YEAH WHATEVER!!! PICTURE THAT!!! I enjoy shooting, sports, movies, plays, dining in or out, reading, music, and concerts just to name a few. I'm an avid fisher and boater. Go Cowboys, Yankees and Heat!!! One more little thing... please have a photo...that's right a picture accessible if I'm putting myself out there it's only fair that you do the same. I'm sick of the lame excuses about why you don't have a photo...such as my scanner broke... I don't take pictures well..etc etc. You describe yourself one way when I see you...you look different. What's up with that???!!! Give me a break!!! Hello!!! Who I am to say no fat people allowed. (I saw that insensitive remark on a profile I read.)

I'm seeking a single or divorced, MATURE, NONsmoking (I REPEAT!!! NONSMOKING NOT SMOKE SOCIALLY OR SMOKE DAILY), drug and disease free, female for a friend. So let's be realistic I am definitely not looking for a Halle Berry or an Ally McBeal type... I'm thinking along the lines of Queen Latifah, and Monique(Big girls give a holla' if you there). I think there's nothing more attractive than a large woman who carries herself well. Not to count you out you neat and petiters..you look good too. :) There... are you happy now?? So if you like to laugh give me try. Just take my hand and we'll go where life leads us. You must have a ZEST for life. Chickenheads, crackheads, airheads, DRUGGIES, alcoholics, section 8er's, bar babes, drama mamas, hoochie mamas, gold diggers, thugettes, and ghetto fabulous don't ring this doorbell 'cause I ain't answering. Marijuana, reefer, pot, and/or weed is an illegal drug for those who don't know. If you have kids PLEASE indicate that in your profile.

Vierge

Divorcé/e

Non

Pas sûr/e

Sourire

Même pas envisageable

Noirs

Pas d'animaux

Non

Etudes secondaires incomplètes

Plein-temps

Police / Forces de la loi

Correction Officer and DJ

Seul/e

C'est plutôt calme

Non

Non

Clown de la classe

Sympa, Comique

Sports, Lecture, Musique, Films, Photographie, Voyages, Voitures, Camper, Pêche / Chasse

Sortir avec des amis, Faire du shopping, Rester à la maison, Faire de nouvelles expériences, Regarder un bon film, Me relaxer, Sports extrêmes, Lire, Jouer aux jeux vidéos, Aller à un concert

Sympa, La personne qu'ils aimeraient être, Cool

Chrétien

Une fois par an

Intelligent, Sympa

Actualités, Documentaires, Films, Sports

Action, Comédies, Drames, Documentaires, Thrillers

Country, Rap, Classique, Blues, Jazz, Latino, Dance, Soul

Autobiographies, Biographies, Musique, Mystères, Politique, Sports

Humour, Talents, Audace, Spontanéité, Bon sens, Délicatesse

Pote virtuel, Vrai‧e ami‧e