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mjspade Profile Information

I don't fit the mold, I make my own!!
Age 46 From Tampa, Florida - Online - Over 2 weeks ago
Man Seeking A Woman

Basic Information

I Would Describe Myself As  
I am an energetic person who is willing to try new things, and I enjoy getting to know people. I enjoy doing almost anything as long as I am enjoying myself while doing it. I am a goal oriented person in my career and I work hard to achieve them, but when I am off work I like to have fun with good people. I have ideas and things I would like to accomplish in life, and having someone to share those ideas with would be a nice addition to my life.

Because I am a unique individual, I don't' fit any mold or stereotype that people get put into. I am not a thug or a pretty boy, I guess I am a just a unique type of person who doesn't fit stereotype, but that does not even start to tell the story about who I am. I love playing Poker, and I like watching Anime (if you know what that is you get bonus points), going to the gym, and doing home improvements, so I do a variety of things. I love meeting people and having stimulating conversations, I like a woman who has opinions and doesn't mind sharing them.

I would like to have a wife and children some day, and it will happen when the right woman comes along. I am living my life one day at a time and enjoying it, I learned a long time ago you can't force the right woman to fall out of the sky, it will happen when it's time. I like to travel a lot, I went to Las Vegas this year, I went to Mexico last year, so I am always out seeking adventure and seeing the world. I really enjoy meeting people, and getting to know them.

I don't like the games that people play in relationships, but that's just a part of the process. I am who I am I don't change who I am to impress someone, or to make it seem like I have more than I do. The way I approach potential relationships is I let things follow a natural progression, I believe that if both people are feeling the same way things will work themselves out. I think people press too much in relationships for things to happen that aren't really there, relationships take time they are a marathon not a sprint.

I am on a variety of networks online, so it shouldn't be too hard to find me. If you are interested in knowing more, just drop me a line, wink, or whatever this site uses.
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Cancer

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is  
Athletic
My Height Is  
5' 10 (1.78 m)
My Eyes Are  
Brown
My Ethnicity Is  
African American
My Marital Situation Is  
Single
I Have Kids  
No
I Want Kids  
Yes
My Best Feature Is  
Legs
Body Art  
Wouldn't Even Think About It
My Hair Is  
Black
I Have One Or More Of These  
No pets
Willing To Relocate  
No

Status

My Education Level Is  
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is  
Full-time
My Speciality Is  
Computers / Electronic
My Job Title Is  
Network Engineer
I Make This Much In A Year  
$60,000USD To $74,999USD
I Live  
Alone
At Home  
Friends Come Over Occasionally
I'm A Smoker  
No
I Drink  
Yes - Socially

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A  
Jock
My Social Behavior Is  
Boisterous, Comedic, Party Starter, Flirtatious, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are  
Sports, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Photography, Travel, Cooking, Playing Cards, Gambling, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is  
Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Clubbing / Bars, Drinking, Going To A Casino, Tv, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be  
On a first date I think an activity where I can talk and we can get to know each other is important. So many people do dinner and a movie on a first date, in a movie you can't talk and learn anything about the person. I would definitely go out to dinner, and then go do an activity like bowling, or something fun we can do together. I really don't care what we do as long as me and the person I am with are having fun.
I've Always Wanted To Try  
I have to think about this one, I typically go do the things I am interested in.
My Friends Describe Me As Being  
Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool

Views

My Religion Is  
Christian
I Attend Services  
Once A Month
My Political Views Are  
Very Liberal
My Goal In Life Is  
I have so many, but ultimately I want a family and to see the world outside of this country. My career is just a means to an end, and I hope I am able to retire early and enjoy the rest of my life.
My Kind Of Humor Is  
Clever, Slapstick

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch  
Cartoons, Documentaries, Movies, Sports, Reality Shows
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A  
Action, Comedy, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To  
Rap, Rock, Electronic, Pop, Blues, Jazz, Latin, Soul, Reggae
When I Read, I Always Read  
Technical
My Idea Of Fun Is  
I do a variety of things for fun, play poker, watch movies, go to the gym, take photos, play games, travel, etc...; I like to do anything as long as I am having fun while doing it. I watch a lot of movies, my DVD collection is very Big. But for the most part spending time with a good group of people is the most fun.

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?  
Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Boldness, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For?  
The woman I am looking for is a person who is confident and has some sense of independence. I don't want to date someone who is jealous or not trusting, I have met a lot of people in my life and I have learned to accept people for who they are. I hope the woman I meet doesn't mind a straight forward guy who prefers not to beat around the bush. My match will also be able to accept me for who I am, and who will be open to allowing me to get to know her. I think communicating is the key to getting to know a person, and if that doesn't exist it's hard to make progress.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?  
Internet Buddy, Date, Intimate, Committed
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