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Hello Again....I decided to update this message because I didn't want to come off like I was a drama queen or too hardcore and don't want a man in my life. That isn't me at all. But my message will distinguish between a man or the boys on here. You can't judge a book by it's cover and not know what it is about. Basically looks are deceiving. You never know what you have until you test the waters a little. LOL. So take time out of your busy schedules, read, and look at my pictures before responding. You might have found your helpmate. You never know. :)
The Message....As a true man, you should know if you want a woman or a playmate by now. I might have come off a little strong in that statement but if you kept on reading this then maybe you have come to the right page. As you see, I don’t have time for manipulative immature boys trying to be men. I've been through those relationships a time or two and sometimes “YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT YOU HAVE UNTIL IT IS GONE.” I’ll leave that up to you to decide if I am just talking or if I really am a woman worth your time and effort. My future relationship should be based on honesty, love, and commitment. I didn't say what kind of relationship did I. Well, we might meet each other for a romantic date and end up the best of friends because it wasn't a love connection. For those who are serious and tired of games, let’s get to know each other first with intentions of being in each other’s life in the future as one. I don’t want to rush into anything with anyone and we aren't happy. Men, you know what I am talking about. After that first date or two, you all know if you want to spend the rest of your life with that woman or not. Not just me but with any woman. Follow your heart and what GOD is telling you. We all deserve true happiness. If we are compatible and want to pursue a relationship in the future, I am looking forward to growing spiritually with you also.

ME...I am a fun loving mother of an 11 year old son who is the man in my life alone with GOD. I am patient with all things in life because I want to get things right the first time. I am a God Fearing woman who is patient about meeting a God Fearing man. I am not one of those chicks who are in relationships with men and they don't know anything about it. So I won't assume anything unless you tell me what it is. I like alot of communication in my relationships. If we can't communicate with each other we have nothing. Friendship, Love, and Faith knows no color. So just letting you know that I am not color struck. I have no idea who God has me patiently waiting to meet to be my husband/friend or what ethnicity he may be. I will not limit myself and pass up a good thing. Other things about me are I like Jazz, R&R, Gospel, and a little bit of the other genres. I LOVE to travel all over the U.S. I like to drive a lot to different states because I get to spend time with my mini me and whomever is down for the drive. I am a very direct kind of chick. Dealing with different personalities and tempers every day on a prior job, I learned a lot about people (men in general) which can be very challenging at times. I am currently an undeclared Junior working on a bachelor's degree at SIUE in Illinois. I am trying to find my true calling right now because there is so much I like to do. I have a head on my shoulders and wisdom in my heart.You will have your own view of me and what you liked about me. That's what getting to know each other is all about. Looking forward to meeting you. Take Care

Cancer

Thick

5' 2 (1.57 m)

Brown

African American

Single

Yes - At Home

Not Sure

Lips

Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Strategically Placed Tattoo, Visible Tattoo

Dark Brown

Reptile

Yes

College Degree

Unemployed

Administrative / Management

None

$15,000USD To $29,999USD

With Kid(s)

All Is Calm

No

Yes - Socially

Quiet One

Comedic, Flirtatious, Friendly, Observant, Outgoing, Reserved, Shy

Dancing, Exercising, Family, Internet, Games, Learning, Movies, Music, Photography, Reading

Hanging Out With Friends, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Playing Video Games, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things

a quiet dinner for me and that special man. A walk in the park or a social setting so we can talk more and walk the food off. hahaha Then returning to our car or cars leaving each other with something to think about to do on the next date.

to live my life to the fullest. And have the up most respect for myself in the process. I mean, we all have a lot of freak in us. But you don't want to be everybody's freak.

Friendly, Cool, Raunchy, Goofy, A Flirt

Spiritual But Not Religious

Once A Week

Middle Of The Road

to find passion in everything I do. Jobs, relationships,and stay out of harms way. I would like to be blissfully married before I leave this earth. There are alot of things that I want to experience before leaving here and with patience it will happen.

Friendly, Goofy, Raunchy

News, Documentaries, Dramas, Movies

Action, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Family, Animation, Horror

Gospel, Jazz, Rap, Soul

Auto-biography, Erotica, Fiction, Humor, Mystery, Poetry, Romance, Religious

TASTE OF CHICAGO. My friends & I go every year. Other than that just doing things that make me and my son happy. Now with a man. Well that will be up to us and what comes natural. Walk in the park, zoo, Science Center to name a few. Something that will keep a conversation going for many years to come.

Boldness, Flirtatiousness, Good Looks, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Passiveness, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness

Honesty, respect, loyality, and good character in a friend. If we can get to know each other and love to be around each other, then a simple kiss will be more than you will imagine.

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed