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39 years old, single mother, animal crazy, full-figured, uprooted New Yorker, educated, intelligent, articulate, loving, loyal. I'm not a party animal, game player, or cheater. I can be moody, silly, romantic, extroverted...my moods are many. I try to be straightforward and hope that my man would be the same. I'm not looking for a thug, or a man with whom I can't have a decent conversation. If the phrase "You know what I'm sayin'?" passes your lips every ten seconds, pass me by. I'm not looking for a booty call. I am looking for someone who will make me feel special beyond the honeymoon stage of the relationship, a man who will understand that my daughter comes first, and who will love her as his own if and when that time ever comes. I'm looking for someone with a good education, good sense of humor, who recognizes that full figured does not translate into unworthy. He must be able to look at and see ME, not my weight, and love me regardless of it. An ability to laugh at self is key, as is education. That's very important.

I want someone who will make every attempt to be my fairy tale, because the man I'm with will be treated like a king. I'm not the type of person who likes someone who is confrontational or controlling, nor someone who will brush off my needs to think only of his own. He needs to consider mine as well as his, as I will do the same. I want a man who will treat me the way he wants to be treated. Love is a special state of being, and is not something that should be treated lightly or taken for granted. And, people, we all need to realize that it takes work to make a relationship thrive, just like any other job. Nothing is going to fall in our laps perfectly, wrapped in pretty paper with a big red bow on top. It doesn't work that way. And if you got that pretty box, think twice before you open it. Nobody is perfect, and I don't expect my man to be. But I do expect that both of us will make the attempt to be perfect for each other.

Aries

Big And Beautiful

5' 10 (1.78 m)

Brown

African American, Other

Separated

Yes - At Home

Yes

Eyes

Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Visible Tattoo

Dark Brown

Dog

Yes

Some College

Homemaker

Other

stay at home mom, veterinary tech

$15,000USD To $29,999USD

Alone, With Kid(s), With Pet(s)

All Is Calm

Yes - Trying To Quit

Yes - Socially

Average Joe

Friendly

Arts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Internet, Games, Family, Cooking, Camping

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Playing Video Games, Going To A Concert

I would stick to the traditional dinner and a movie so that you can get to know one another better.

I wanted to get my pilot's license.

Friendly

Spiritual But Not Religious

Never

I Don't Like Politics

To finish my undergraduate degree. I'm undecided if I will stop at veterinary technician, or make an attempt at veterinary medical school.

Dry / Sarcastic

Documentaries, Dramas, Movies

Action, Science Fiction, Family, Animation

Country, Classical, Jazz, New age, Soul, Reggae

Ancient, Fantasy, Fiction, Humor, Nature, Science Fiction

Anything that involves dogs or children, hiking in cooler weather, camping, horseback riding, video games...I'm fairly open, as long as it's not something I can get killed doing!

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Wit, Thoughtfullness

Inytelligence and humor are big, also a love of children and animals. Education is an important characteristic. I like a good conversation, and someone who can argue with eloquence without browbeating you with their opinion.

Friend, Committed